Often, we find ourselves constantly thinking about someone out of the blue. Have you ever wondered whether you are on someone else’s mind? If you dream about someone, are they thinking about you? If someone is on your mind are you on theirs? How to tell if someone misses you? Does your constantly thinking of someone mean they know about it?
Have you experienced that sensation? Is it actually possible to feel that someone is thinking of you?
Too many questions… let us try to find some answers by understanding the basics and tackling them one by one…
What is a psychic phenomenon?
In parapsychology, it is defined as “a phenomenon that appears to contradict physical laws and suggest the possibility of causation by mental processes”. This sensation is also known in common parlance as telepathy or second sight or clairvoyance or extrasensory perception (E.S.P.).
Using existing scientific knowledge, this ‘feeling’ is hard to explain. In fact, there is no explanation for it. You just feel so.
‘Feeling the gaze’ is one such sensation. If you have experienced this, it would be easier to explain. It is the sixth sense telling us that someone is watching us.
A similar equally compelling experience is the feeling that someone is thinking of you.
How to know if someone is thinking about you?
Others may be thinking of you but you get to bask in that feeling only if you know about it. It would be comforting and at times flattering to realize that you are being remembered by someone.
If that person is someone special, you would definitely like to know when this is happening and in what context. More details about this person’s thoughts about you will give you an idea of where your relationship stands with the person.
That person may be having negative thoughts about you as well, though you want it to be positive ones. The thoughts about you may not be of the flattering kind at all; that person may be thinking how annoying you are and how much he/she dislikes you. Or the person may be having obsessive thoughts about you – even dangerous ones.
It stands to reason that you would like to know about these thoughts someone else is having about you. Being informed serves well in the long run.
Now, we come to the question of how to recognize the psychic signs that someone is thinking of you. Is that really possible? Isn’t it something straight out of movies?
Apparently, no. As long as you keep your extrasensory powers awake and alert, you can learn to detect the energy vibrations sent by the person when he/she is thinking of you.
As we know, everything in this Universe is an energy that is vibrating at varying frequencies. This means that even our thoughts and feelings are energy vibrations. So, when someone is thinking of you, he/she sends the energy vibrations that are evident to us in the form of signs.
Now, it is up to you to look out for these signs and interpret them.
11 psychic signs that someone is thinking about you
1. Hiccups
We feel annoyed when we get hiccups. It is normal to get hiccups at the end of a meal. However, random hiccups are considered psychic signs that someone is remembering you or talking about you. Unfortunately, hiccups are an indication that someone is having negative thoughts about you or bad-mouthing you. And, there is a way to tell who the person is.
Keep track of every time you get random hiccups. You need to make sure that natural triggers for hiccups such as eating/drinking in excess or too quickly is not the reason. Some medications and health conditions can also lead to hiccups.
Take note of the people around you when you get random hiccups and find out one common person at all times. This person is the culprit. He/she is the one having unpleasant thoughts about you or even spreading slander about you.
2. Sneezing
Is it true that when you sneeze someone misses you?
When you sneeze out of the blue, it means someone is thinking of you or missing you. This belief has its roots in many Asian cultures. In fact, the thoughts trigger an uncontrollable itching of your nose, resulting in recurrent sneezing.
Before jumping to conclusions, you need to rule out the natural triggers for sneezing like a cold. If you are not sick and still having an episode of sneezing, then it is a sign that someone is having happy and positive thoughts about you. Or, even missing you and in love with you.
There is a way to tell who the person is. Ask anyone near you to choose a random 3-digit number. Add up the digits and figure out the corresponding letter in the alphabet. That will give you the initial of the person thinking of you. The person’s name starts with the letter. You can figure out the rest.
3. Burning sensation in ears or cheeks
Do you remember the feeling of embarrassment? Or the sensation of being slapped? The tingling, burning, and flushed feeling you experienced? Not exactly the blush you may get when someone compliments you. It is the more severe sensation we are talking about here. You will feel like this when someone is negatively thinking of you. Or, simply put, badmouthing you when you are not present.
You feel this sensation in both cheeks and ears. It is as if you are being slapped long-distance. Or being slapped with words. The burning feeling may be accompanied by a flushed look. That is reddened cheeks and ears.
If there is no other reason for the tingling or burning sensation or the redness, like fever or feeling embarrassed, then it is a sure sign that someone is dragging you through the mud and maligning your name.
However, some say that the flushed ear alone is an indication that someone is having tender feelings for you.
4. Itching or twitching of an eye
Discounting eye ailment, if you feel itching or twitching of an eye all of a sudden, it is a sign that you are in someone else’s thoughts. The thoughts can be both positive and negative. And, there is a way to identify them.
You get an idea of the kind of thoughts someone is having about you based on which one of your eyes are itching or twitching. And, it differs for men and women.
For a man, twitching of the right eye is considered positive and that of the left eye is negative. In women, it is the other way around. Twitching or itching of the left eye means someone is praising you and that of the right eye is an indication of someone criticizing you.
Before jumping to conclusions, you need to rule out natural causes for itching/twitching of the eye such as allergies, medical issues, or insect bite. Stress, sleep deprivation, tiredness, and diet may also be the reason.
5. Sudden discomfort mid-meal
Imagine this scenario. You are eating your meal slowly and calmly. You are not talking or distracted in any possible manner. Neither are you rushing through the meal. Out of the blue, you start coughing violently and start choking on the food.
It may be because of the presence of stress and tension in your immediate vicinity. High levels of tension felt by the person nearby will affect you and you will find it difficult to swallow your food. This will lead to you choking on it and coughing it clear up the mess.
If this is not the case, it may be due to someone saying negative things or having bad thoughts about you. The stress and tension are causing you to cough and/or choke as the feelings are reaching your subconscious mind by telepathy.
Related article: How to Make Your Subconscious Mind Believe Something?
6. Unexplained touch sensation
Have you ever experienced the feeling of touch when there is no one close by? Unlike other signs, this will make you feel worried and anxious. There is nothing to worry about. It has nothing to do with paranormal activity. There is a good explanation for this.
As we know even thoughts and feelings are energy vibrations. When someone is thinking about you, talking about you, or has strong feelings for you, those thoughts and feelings reach you as energy transmissions. How intensely you feel the touch depends on the intensity of the feelings of that person.
To ascertain whether the person’s thoughts are positive or negative, you need to figure out the feeling of the touch itself. If it felt like a gentle caress or a loving touch, the thoughts about you are positive for sure. However, if it was an unpleasant touch, the chances are the thoughts are not good ones. They may be either sad or angry.
7. Goosebumps
We all know for sure that goosebumps are connected to your thoughts and feelings. It is typical to get goosebumps when you are remembering some happy and exciting incidents from the past. When this is not the case and you are getting goosebumps, all the same, it can be that someone is thinking about you in a good way. It is an indication that this person finds you attractive and is drawn to you.
When someone is thinking of you, their thoughts reach your subconscious mind as energy transmissions. When your subconscious mind is aware of it, it shows up as goosebumps.
So, when you are getting goosebumps for no apparent reason like cold weather or reliving good memories yourself, it is a sign that someone loves you and is secretly having tender thoughts about you and maybe missing you.
8. Dreams
When you find the same person appearing in your dreams, again and again, it is a sign that the person is thinking about you. The chances of this turning out to be true are more if you have not met or spoken to the person in recent times.
The intensity of the person’s thoughts about you will trigger a strong energy transmission that is received by your subconscious mind. Your mind processes this and brings it out through your dreams.
There is no way to say for sure whether the thoughts about you are good or bad. You may get an inkling about the kind of thoughts in your dreams either explicitly or otherwise. If you are tuned in, you will be able to get a clue from the vibes you get from your dreams.
9. Incomprehensible emotions
In the middle of a good day, you find yourself drowning in sad thoughts. Or, you are having a bad day, and all of a sudden, you find yourself calming down to a peaceful state of mind. This sudden change of emotions is unexplainable and hence a bit frightening.
No need to worry, there is a simple explanation for this phenomenon. Your emotional flow is getting interrupted by the energy vibrations from another person. When someone is thinking or talking about you, in both the good and bad sense, they send out energy vibrations to you. Depending on the intensity of their thoughts, this will interfere with the normal activities of your mind.
While feeling angry or sad, you find yourself suddenly calm or happy. Your concentration may get dislodged in the middle of a busy day at work.
10. Finding a white feather
A white feather is a symbolic reminder of a loved one who is no longer with you. When you are having difficulty in dealing with the loss of the loved one, finding a white feather comes as solace. It tells you that all is well.
Finding a white feather is an indication that the loved one is now in a good place and is fine. It also tells you the person is thinking of you. A white feather conveys the message from the loved one that you need not worry about him/her. And, that he/she is watching over you and wants you to be happy.
11. Butterfly landing on you
In many cultures, butterflies are considered spiritual beings. They are believed to help in the transmission of energy from person to person. So, when a butterfly lands on you, it means it is bringing the thought energies from the person thinking about you.
This contention may not be true if you are out in the open nature where butterflies are commonly found. When you are inside and thinking of someone, if a butterfly lands on you or comes close to you, it is a strong signs from the universe for energy connection.
For most people, it is hard to believe that there are psychic signs that indicate someone loves you or misses you, or even having negative thoughts about you. As it is not easy to explain these signs logically, maybe you should give them the benefit of doubt and take a chance. After all, there is nothing to lose and so much to gain.
For more on this topic, see our article 200 juicy questions to get to know someone.
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