You have probably heard about soulmates and twin flames. While both are soul connections, they are not the same and cannot be mistaken for the other.
Both the terms are usually used to denote a strong bond. The very idea that there exists a unique person meant just for you sounds so romantic and idyllic.
However, the general impression that most people have about these relationships is so far away from the truth. Over years these connections have been romanticized so much that we have lost sight of its essence.
This article explores the meanings of soulmates and twin flames and charts the difference between the two.
Who is your soulmate?
A soulmate is another soul you come across during your lifetime who is linked to you at a spiritual level. The purpose of a soulmate is to wake up, stimulate, and challenge you so that you can improve and become a better version of yourself. A person can have more than one soulmate. And not all soulmate connections are romantic by nature; they can be friends or family.
A soulmate is someone who accepts you unconditionally and understands you, sometimes even better than you understand yourself. Whatever your real-life relationship with your soulmate is, deep down, the core of the connection is friendship. It would be someone who makes you feel comfortable, safe, and most importantly, loved.
The most significant indication of a soulmate is instant recognition and effortless bonding. You feel as if you have known them the entire life and feel at home in their presence. You feel no inhibitions while talking to them or sharing your intimate secrets. In short, the arrival of a soulmate makes life easier and enjoyable.
The purpose of a soulmate is to show you the right way and help you to grow as a person. They are here to show you those sides of you that you were not aware of. They help you find your real strengths, hidden talents, and true self. Ultimately, this will help you scale heights that you never thought possible.
Twin flame – the meaning
The twin flame is the other half of the same soul. This is not an easy concept to understand. To make it simpler, let us approach it from another angle.
Often souls get split into two and inhabit two different individuals in the next life. In the next as well as later lives, these split-up halves of the soul try to find each other and reunite.
A twin flame connection is very intense, powerful, and often considered difficult. Being of opposite energy, a twin flame connection is most often romantic by nature. A twin flame is described as a mirror of your soul; someone who is very similar to you in the most fundamental sense.
There is no guarantee that you have an existing twin flame or you would meet your twin flame in your lifetime. Unlike soulmates, a person can have only one twin flame.
Soulmate vs Twin flame
It is understandable how and why these two soul connections are confused and mistaken for each other. In both cases, the connection is so strong and intense that in the first encounter it is impossible to identify the nature of the bond.
Both connections are integral and unavoidable elements of your destiny. You feel like you are home when you meet them. You feel as if you can be yourself in their presence and there is no need for decorum and conventions. The reason for this is you are just continuing your relationship from the previous life and know each other intimately.
There end the similarities.
Some of the most striking differences between a twin flame and a soulmate are:
Soulmates are two separate souls, while twin flames are two halves of the same soul.
Soulmate connection is easy, pleasant, and smooth-flowing. Whereas, twin flame connection is typically difficult and at times toxic. The reason being a twin flame is like a mirror and they mirror your issues, imperfections, imbalances, and inadequacies, making it harder to get along.
A soulmate relationship is stable and most often lasts for a lifetime. However, a twin flame connection is so turbulent and demanding that it is common for them to break up within a short time. They may reunite later but break up again.
A soulmate brings to the table a different set of experiences and perspectives, while your twin flame is most likely to have similar personality and insights as you.
You may have multiple soulmates but have only one twin flame or even none.
There are no hard and fast rules about soulmates and twin flames. You just need to trust your instinct to identify and differentiate between the two.
Some questions answered…
Can soulmates be twin flames? This is a question asked often.
The short answer is they cannot. For the simple reason that soulmates are different souls with connections that span across lifetimes. And, twin flames are two halves of the same soul.
Another oft-asked question is which is better?
There is no correct or wrong answer to this question. They are different but both have a role to play in our lives, whether we like it or not, enjoy it or not. One may be easier than the other but they are present in your life for a reason – to help you discover your true self and help you to be better human beings.
Who is more likely to be your life partner – twin flame or soulmate?
The best answer to that is “It depends”. It depends on the circumstances and the bonding. The chances of forming romantic relationships with a soulmate may be higher than with a twin flame as not everyone has a twin flame. Though if you do find your twin flame, the relationship is more likely to be romantic than not.
Every person who forms a connection with you, be it a soulmate or a twin flame, has something to offer you – to teach you. You do the same for them as well.
When the focus is on personal growth and not on the temporary setbacks, skirmishes, and inconveniences caused by the bonding, it is a win-win situation for all concerned.
That said, don’t spend your life searching for your soulmate or twin flame. You would be wasting your time in the senseless pursuit and would be defeating its very purpose altogether.
“Que será, será” – meaning, whatever will be, will be. If it has to happen it will. Carry on with your lives to the best of your abilities and leave the rest to the Universe.