Do you feel as if you are the only single person on this planet and you are never going to find the love of your life? Does it feel that others have found the magical key to true love and a great relationship and you are searching for it aimlessly without a clue?
This is not surprising considering the parade of bad dates, frequent breakups, and failed relationships. Though the future looks bleak and lonely to you, it ain’t over until it’s over, as they say. Do you know how to manifest love with the law of attraction?
Does it look like you have given up on love and don’t want to try anymore? Have you really? Isn’t your search for that special someone still alive in the depths of your heart?
The law of attraction can help you understand what is going wrong with your life and how to get it right. Here is a manual on how to manifest love that lasts. Are you ready to manifest love in your life?
How can the law of attraction help?
The law is all about being positive to attract positive things in your life. When you sincerely believe that something good is going to happen, you invest your time and energy to make it happen. Manifesting your dreams is not based on magic or hocus pocus. It is a systematic approach to manifest what you want in your life.
Manifesting true love or a lasting relationship may sound too farfetched to you now. Just like any of your other desires, it is very much possible to manifest love with the law of attraction. All that you have to do are adjust your attitude and follow the steps of manifestation.
The best part about manifesting your soulmate is that you can find the exact kind of person you want. How would you like it if you have a partner who is happy to curl up with you in front of the television watching your favorite show rather than going out with friends? Someone who will give you the perfect gift you would love to have. One who will love and cherish you and treat you with the respect and dignity you deserve. Does it sound too incredible and unbelievable? Rest assured, it is not.
The easy part about manifesting true love is letting the Universe make it happen. The hard part is believing in the process and trusting the Universe. Trust doesn’t come easy for you considering your past experiences. When manifestation takes more time than expected, it is easy to lose hope and give up.
A successful manifestation demands total devotion and dedication from you. Believe me, it is totally worth it. The steps detailed here ensure that you don’t get distracted and stay on track till the finish.
Before we discuss how to manifest love, we need to dig a bit to find out why you are failing in the first place.
What am I doing wrong?
When people around you have figured out how to find the perfect relationship, and how to make it last and you are unable to manifest love in your life, it stands to reason that you are going about it the wrong way. Though in a general way, search for a specific person is similar for everyone, it is not exactly so. Each person finds love in a unique way.
Despite different approaches, there are some common points that you may be getting wrong. And these missteps may be working against you and creating roadblocks in your path to finding true love.
Are the answers to any of these questions ‘yes’ for you? If so, change your approach to clear the blockages in your path.
Are you shut down emotionally?
There is no need to feel defensive or apologetic about it. It is understandable when all your attempts go awry. It is the natural reaction of your heart to protect itself from more hurt or disappointment. When you face repeated rejections you tend to build an invisible wall around you to safeguard against further brush-offs.
Unfortunately, this invisible wall will keep out welcome attention as well. It will dissuade people from approaching you or getting to know you. It will prevent you from finding the relationship that you are looking for.
Open up your heart and see the difference. You may be exposing yourself to further pain and disappointments. However, if you go about it the right way, your dreams are bound to come true. Isn’t the risk worth taking?
Are you still living in the past?
Are you drawing parallels with your new and old relationships? Are you trying to find similarities between the person you recently met with one from your past? And attempting to predict their behavior based on this?
It is hard to accomplish something good if you are still living in the past. It would be better for your future if you realize that the past is past. Learn to let it go. The sooner you understand this truth and put it into practice, the easier it is going to be for you.
In case you find yourself unable to let go of a past relationship, try to retrace your steps to where you broke off and do your best to revive it. Even after your best efforts, if there is no sign of hope, just accept the fact that the person involved is toxic to you. You are better off without the relationship. Let it go without any further ado.
Have you lost faith?
This is a logical reaction when things are not working out for you again and again. When you are trying your best to find the perfect match for a long time unsuccessfully, it would seem a reasonable assumption for you that true love is merely an illusion or something that happens only in fairy tales.
When you lose faith in the idea of love, soulmate, and ‘made for each other’ relationship, you would be willing to settle for unsuitable partners or even resign yourself to single status for life. Do you realize what you are losing because of your attitude?
Shake off that feeling of resignation and infuse some happiness and positivity in your life. This is easier said than done when you are feeling down in the dumps. It may be hard to get rid of the thoughts of despair and surrender, but not impossible. Put in that extra effort to shed those negative thoughts and feelings. You would thank yourself for this move later when you are living the life of your dreams.
Are you trying too hard?
You may not believe this. Working on something too much can have a detrimental effect. This is because trying too hard to achieve something focuses on the lack of it. You are bound to feel desperate after a while. This is a negative feeling which will work against you. Instead, change tack and let it go. You will be surprised to find that suddenly you have what you were pursuing all this while.
This is so true in the case of love and relationship. When you are lonely and badly want to have that specific person in your life, you will find your desire out of reach. You analyze to death the reasons for your failure. This will send negative vibes to those around you and drive them away. The moment you decide to surrender, give up the chase, and get on with life, love appears in your life out of the blue.
Some basic rules of applying the law of attraction to manifest love
” I am lonely and single. I don’t think there is a special someone out there for me. It looks like I am not going to find such a person in my life. I have been wishing fervently for a dream partner for so long. Isn’t this what I am supposed to do? Why am I not granted my wish? Why is the Universe turning a blind eye? Why aren’t the law of attraction techniques working for me?”
Does it look like a transcript of your thoughts? It is no wonder that you are single and have not yet found the love of your life. The law of attraction dating doesn’t work like that. Let us see what is wrong with this thinking process.
The common thread running through this entire conversation you are having with yourself is negativity. You are concentrating on the lack of a good relationship in your life and not on what you want. This is not how to go about manifesting your dreams.
Applying the law of attraction in relationships is neither fantasy nor wishful thinking. The law of attraction stories from real life are proof of its effectiveness in love and relationship. The law is not complaining or brooding about what you don’t have and what you deserve, hoping that it will be remedied.
Let us see how we can change the narrative.
1) Focus on what you want
And not on what you don’t want or what you deserve. Nor on the fact that you want something. There is a world of difference between what you want and the fact that you want something. For a successful manifestation, you have to devote your entire attention and energy to what you want and work towards that goal.
When the thought of what you don’t want is occupying your mind, you are sending confusing signals to the Universe. Clarity is the key to success. Being positive brings more clarity to the situation.
Merely wishing for something is not enough either. Manifestation is no miracle. To get what you want, you have to align your subconscious mind with the goal and take action.
2) Lock your gaze on the target
Most probably you are facing some issues in your life and you want that to change. But don’t allow these temporary impediments to distract you from your dreams. Ignore the hurdles and roadblocks you encounter on the way. Brush aside the setbacks. Keep your eyes riveted on the target and work earnestly towards it.
3) Adjust your attitude
If you want a change of environment, you need to effect a change in yourself first. It is clear that with your present disposition, you are not attracting the kind of relationship you want in your life. It stands to reason that you make a change in yourself to bring about a change in your situation. When you change the way you relate to others, you will find the blockages in your path disappearing in no time.
However, this simple truth is hard to understand and put into practice. This is where most people go wrong with manifestation. They assume that they can remain the same and still manage to reach the goal somehow. Sorry, it doesn’t work like that.
How to apply these rules to manifest love?
In fact, it is self-evident. Just look around you and pay attention to couples in happy relationships. Have you come across a single person who is feeling desperate or hopeless? No, right?
A person in a fulfilling relationship is content, confident, and self-assured. Those in love radiate happiness and positivity. And, this is the quality that attracts people like the one in your dreams.
And have you met people who are single by choice? Have you noticed that they are never lacking in attention from the best out there? Their positive and confident mentality is a natural magnet for people. Without intention, they have applied the basic principles of the law of attraction on love. You too can take a page out of their book and adopt the attitude.
4 Steps to manifesting a loving relationship
Manifesting a dream partner is similar to other manifestations. The genuine intention is the key to a successful manifestation. Wishing for true love in real earnest and working sincerely to realize the dream are also essential components of a successful manifestation.
Having a clear idea of what you want and who you are looking for helps speed up the manifestation process. When you are unclear about what you want, how can you expect the Universe to make it happen?
Here are the 4 steps that can change your life forever.
1) Love yourself
The wise old saying goes something like this, “You can’t love others until you love yourself”. Like many old sayings, there is truth in this. Simple as it may sound, it is not easy to practice.
Shut the voice: In reality, we are our own biggest critics. There is a voice in the brain that is constantly commenting on everything that is happening around us and all our actions, words, feelings, and thoughts. This running commentary mostly is critical about our part in the events. The first step towards self-love is to shut this voice up. Affirmations and meditation offer the best chance to make it happen.
Become your dream partner: You attract people who are aligned with your vibrational frequency. This means people similar to you are drawn towards you. If you do not appreciate or love yourself, you end up having a relationship with those who do not value you or recognize your true worth. Is that what you want? Definitely, no.
So, what can you do to remedy this situation? Transforming yourself to be the person you want in your life is the solution to this dilemma. Make a list of the attributes you want in your dream partner. And, find ways to cultivate those qualities in yourself. It is not easy to accomplish or can be done overnight. But with dedicated effort, it is achievable over time. You may dangle the ultimate reward like a carrot on a stick to keep you on track.
Take care of yourself: You need to be in a happy space to attract desirable people into your lives. This is possible only if you are taking good care of yourself physically as well as mentally. When you look at yourself in the mirror, you should be able to love the person you are seeing. Develop hobbies and interests that you have been putting on hold for want of time. Make time for activities that makes you feel lighthearted and fulfilled.
Revisit your beliefs: Knowingly or unknowingly we set ourselves boundaries on what we are allowed to do, feel, think, or even desire and dream. We start accumulating these limiting beliefs from our early childhood days and continue into adulthood. Most of them we accept without giving a thought. Challenge them with questions like why and what if. Make a list of beliefs you want to get rid of. Write down the contrary beliefs and include them in your daily affirmations.
Once you liberate yourself from these limiting beliefs, you will start dreaming without boundaries. When you start experiencing the true meaning of freedom, you will start loving yourself more.
2) Give clarity to your dreams
When you see other happy couples and compare them with your lonely life, you naturally wish for a loving relationship. But have you given this any further thought? What sort of relationship do you want? What are the attributes you really want in your dream partner?
Attracting love with a specific person using the law of attraction demands clarity in your goal. A vague ‘I want to be in a happy relationship’ or ‘I want to find true love’ is not going to work. You can start by asking yourself these questions
- What are the traits you want in your partner?
- Which qualities in your partner will bring out the best in you and make you a better person?
- How do you want to be treated by your partner? Which behaviors of your partner you will not tolerate?
- What do you want to accomplish in life? What are you most passionate about? What kind of partner will help you reach these goals?
When you introspect and find the answers to these questions, you will have a better idea of the kind of person you are looking for. The clearer you are about what you want, the better the chances for the Universe to grant your request. However, here is a word of caution. Try to be realistic with your desires and expectations. Listing the attributes for a perfect person may not work, as such a person doesn’t exist. However, wishing for a specific person who is perfect for you is achievable. The person may have flaws but is the right match for you.
Again, at times, we think what we want and what is right for us, but we may be completely wrong. Trust the Universe to bring you the perfect partner, even if the person doesn’t satisfy all your conditions.
3) Ready yourself to welcome your soulmate
It is one thing to wish for something, it is a different thing to actually receive it. Before going ahead with the process of manifesting love, you need to make sure that you are serious about your desire and mentally prepared to receive it. When you want to manifest love with a specific person in your life, you need to align your vibrational frequency with that of your desire.
Follow these steps to make a deep connection with the partner of your dreams so that when the person appears in your life, you will be able to accept and welcome the love in your life without missing a beat.
Make your intention clear: Take your time and get a better understanding of the specific person you want in your life. Write down your intention in simple words without any ambiguity. For example, “I am ready to welcome my soulmate into my life’ or ‘My heart is open to receive the person of my dreams’. Read these intentions aloud when you are in a happy and calm space.
Practice daily affirmations: Now that you are clear about the kind of person you want in your life, you are making it easier for the Universe to do its bit. You just need to affirm your belief in the ability of the Universe to make your dreams come true. You may say it out loud or write it down. Repeat the affirmations every day to stay in touch with your belief. A few examples of affirmations for love are “My heart is always open and ready for love”, ” I know that my soulmate is out there” and “I trust the Universe will bring me my perfect match”.
Try creative visualization: Amp up your visualization sessions by including your senses in the process. Use your sensory receptors to heighten the effect. Visualize not just the image of the specific person you want in your life, imagine the smell, voice, and touch of your soulmate to make it more real. Fast-forward your life a few years and play a scene from your future. You may also visualize significant moments in your life ahead such as your wedding day or becoming parents.
4) Trust the Universe and be patient
Even if you follow the steps of manifestation to the letter, you may not accomplish the goal instantly. When there is an inordinate delay in the result, it is natural to question the process and have doubts about its veracity. When you start challenging the process of manifestation, your entire plan starts crumbling. The need of the hour is steadfast belief and tons of patience.
Trust the Universe to bring you the perfect match at the right time. It may not be when you want or even who you want. Do your bit and just relax. Allow the Universe to do its part.
Love manifestation doesn’t work like instant coffee most of the time. It is more like brewed coffee. But the result makes it worth the time and patience you invested. When you begin your manifestation journey to find true love, you are unsure when and where you will find the love of your life. You just need to follow the instructions and keep your heart and mind open. And, stay alert to the signs from the Universe such as coincidences, repetitive images, or casual encounters. Trust your gut feeling to differentiate and recognize the real messages.
Live your life as if you have already succeeded to manifest love in your life. Stay calm, happy, and positive to attract the best relationship. When you are clear about what you really want in life and implicitly trust the Universe and its mechanics, you will begin to see your dreams come true.