This is the stuff of dreams.
You are attracted to this person but they are treating you just as a friend. And, you really would like to have them in your life.
Of course, you don’t want to approach the person directly as you are not so sure about their reaction. You would be racking your brains about what to do.
If you are told that you can make this possible with the law of attraction, how would you react? Overjoyed? Ecstatic? Really?
Yes, it is possible to manifest someone into your life. You can choose to manifest a relationship or a specific someone.
This article tells you how to go about manifesting people. You will find here the manifestation techniques you can use to make this happen.
Is it alright to manifest relationship?
When you first heard that you can manifest a relationship with someone specific, it must have gotten you thinking, “Is it the right thing to do? Am I doing something bad?”.
The answer to this question is not so simple and straightforward. It depends on a few things.
The first and foremost is whether this person wants to be in a relationship with you. Like your ex. The two of you already had a shot at a relationship and parted ways because you couldn’t make it work. Maybe you are having a rethink. That doesn’t mean your ex wants you back in their lives.
Even when this specific person is a stranger, it matters whether the person wants to have a relationship with you. To understand this, you need to look out to tell-tale signs. If you try to manifest someone who is clearly not interested in a relationship with you, your attempt may backfire.
On the other hand, if this person is displaying all obvious signs of being interested in you but your relationship is not starting off or if you got off on the wrong note and would like to restart, you can take the help of the manifestation process to get it right.
4 steps to manifest someone specific
Before you dive into this new chapter of your life, you need to ensure that you really want to have a relationship with this person. You need to make sure that they are suitable for you and you would have a good life together. Having similar interests and viewpoints is helpful. Your values should align well. This person must be someone you can love and respect, preferably someone who can inspire you to be a better person and scale new heights.
Another aspect you should consider is whether the person is single and available for a relationship. If they are already taken and married and happy, you should not mess with their lives. You should have a rethink and be careful about your actions.
As you know, when you are manifesting with the law of attraction, you are requesting the Universe to make your dreams come true. The Universe is always trying to make you happy and will grant your wishes if you go about it the right way. However, the Universe will not bless you if it means making someone else unhappy.
This means you can try this only if the person is willing, consenting, and free for commitment with you.
You also need to ascertain whether this person wants to be in a relationship with you. You cannot manipulate people into loving you. If you feel that others are finding it difficult to have a relationship with you, you may be doing something wrong. Is your heart open enough to offer and receive love?
At times, some previous experiences may have created mental blocks preventing you from this. You may have to reassess your situation and revisit your belief system to identify and remove such limiting beliefs. Unless you do this step, you will find it hard to succeed in your manifestation.
If you want to love another person unconditionally and with all your heart and receive their love, you need to learn how to love yourself. Self-love is the first step in a healthy relationship. You should be able to accept yourself for who you are. With this, you are sending the right signals to the Universe and get it to respond to your requests.
Let’s get started with the manifestation process.
Step 1: Gain clarity on what exactly you want
This is the first step to manifest anything. You need to dig deep and find out as many details of your desire as you can. When you request the Universe to make your dreams come true, you need to be clear and specific. Making vague requests may get you undesired results.
You may have met this person and felt an attraction. This may have prompted you to embark on the manifestation path. This is not good enough.
You should ask yourself more pointed questions to extract more information from the depths of your mind. Such as,
- What kind of person would make an ideal partner for you?
- Does this person fit this image completely?
- Are their moral values in alignment with yours?
- How do you feel when you are with this person?
- Do you feel happy, comfortable, and carefree?
Continue these kinds of queries to ensure that this is the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. And, understand as much about them as possible.
Step 2: Ask the Universe
Once you are clear about what you want to manifest, all you need to do is think about it. Or you can say it out aloud. You can also request by writing it down in the manifestation journal.
You can make your request more forceful with manifestation techniques like visualization and affirmation. Visualization involves imagining your future life after the desire has been manifested. As if in a movie, see with your mind’s eyes, your feelings of happiness, excitement, and fulfillment.
Include your sensations and emotions for added effect. Make this exercise as vivid and colorful as possible. You will find yourself in seventh heaven after a session of visualization. Remain there as long as you wish. There is no better method to raise your positive vibrations.
Affirmations are positive statements to boost your self-belief, self-worth, and confidence. You would need them in ample doses to overcome setbacks you may face during the process.
Some sample affirmations to get you started.
- ____ loves me deeply and unconditionally.
- ____ is always thinking about me.
- We are made for each other and make a perfect couple.
- We are lucky to have each other in our lives.
- We have a special bond and our love is growing stronger every day.
You may also want to take a look at our guide on love affirmations for a specific person.
Step 3: Trust the Universe
Trust is the foundation upon which the entire manifestation process is built. You should be able to believe in the powers of the Universe and its intention to always help you. At times when the manifestation process drags on, you may find your faith wavering.
A breach in faith can turn your manifestation attempt worthless.
If you think your desire is too big to manifest in one go, you can break it down into smaller intentions. This helps in keeping you motivated and maintaining unwavering belief in the process and the Universe.
Step 4: Learn to let go
This is the final step in any manifestation journey. After you have done your part in the process, you should avoid getting obsessed with the goal and your success. You should be able to relax and take a step back to give the Universe space and time to do its job.
With this step, you are making it clear your trust in the Universe. Moreover, you can avoid the negative energy associated with obsessive behavior.
However, you should continue to follow the manifestation practices like visualization and affirmation. It is important to work towards realizing your desire without getting obsessed with it. Balance is the key to successful manifestation.
You can use these steps to make any of your desires come true. This includes a relationship with a specific person as well as more specific goals like getting the person to think about you or to text you.
If you think your imagination skills are not as good as you would like them to be, you can use your writing talent instead. This is known as scripting. You can manifest by writing as effectively.
You may find success instantly or it may take longer than expected. You need to be prepared to continue with the process without a break in your faith.