“Whether you think you can, or you think you can’t – you’re right.” – Henry Ford
A thought so well conveyed!
So, it boils down to YOU! What you want and what you believe…
Is it as simple as that?
Let us start from the beginning and find out whether it is possible to make someone call you instantly using the law of attraction. If yes, how to manifest someone to contact you?
Where am I going wrong?
The starting point is your wish or desire – what you want. Since you are interested and reading this, we will assume that you wish for a call or a text message from a specific person. It may be a special individual you are in love with, someone you want to befriend or a recruiter about a job interview you gave. It works the same.
How many times have you checked your phone today for missed calls and notifications?
Desperately waiting for your phone to come alive…
At times willing and praying for it to ring…
Every time you get a call or a message, your heart is aflutter and you feel as if your heart is in your throat, only to feel let down and disappointed. And disillusioned about the whole thing.
You must be wondering why the law of attraction is not working for you. After all, you have been thinking about nothing else all this time. Isn’t that enough to manifest a call or a message?
Very clearly not. Let us see what you are doing wrong.
The first and most obvious reason is your obsession, at times bordering on neediness and desperation. The energy you give out is all negative. As you are aware, you get back what you send out.
Another point to note is your belief. Even when wishing for a call or message from that person, you do not believe that it will happen. You may even be believing in your heart of hearts that it is not going to happen.
When your thoughts and feelings are lingering in the negative space, how can you expect good, positive things to happen in your life? You are giving out negative vibes to people around you because of your desperate behavior and pessimistic beliefs.
You receive what you give.
So, the solution to your problem is also simple. To change what you are receiving, you just need to change what you are sending out. Turn around your outlook from negative to positive.
Another point to remember. Blaming that person for not contacting you is so unfair. Because you are the one causing this.
Last but not least is your assumption about the attitude of that person towards you. Guessing the intention behind another person’s action is going about it the wrong way. Do not take their silence or staying away as an indication of their lack of love or hatred towards you. You never know what is going through their mind. Try to give them the benefit of doubt.
This has one more downside. When you assume negative things about the person, through your energy vibrations, these thoughts reach them and they begin to have negative thoughts about you in real. Everyone is a reflection of your thoughts.
Now, we come to the question – how can I change my attitude and manifest my desire?
How to manifest a call or a text from someone specific using the law of attraction?
The first step in manifesting is to believe in the process. You need to believe that it is possible to manifest someone to miss you and prompt them to contact you.
Before you go ahead, you need to keep in mind a few basic points.
- Manifestation is not an overnight process, at least for beginners.
- The key to successful manifestation is patience and perseverance.
- Respect the other person’s right to free will.
Here are the steps of manifestation to get someone to contact you.
1. Make sure your desire is real
You wish for many things to happen, but most often it is just a passing fancy and not an intense desire. Is this also one such fleeting whim? If so, there lies your reason for failure at manifesting. In case your desire is momentary and not enduring, it is better to abandon its pursuit.
Your desire needs to be rooted in burning passion to withstand the hurdles and challenges you may have to overcome in the course of your manifestation journey.
2. Be clear about what you want
The clarity in what you want is vital for a successful manifestation. Add as many details as you can gather such as the name of the person with whom you want to get in touch. Think about why you want this person to contact you and make a list of the reasons.
Even if you are sure about this person, try to find out what you love about this person and why you want the person to contact you. Identify the attributes of the person that is drawing you in.
In your appeal to the Universe, wish for a person with those general traits rather than a specific someone. For all you know, you may be unaware that the person is not suitable for you. Trust the Universe to know what is best for you and bring you the right person at the right time. Believe in the motto – if not this, something better will come to you.
3. Do away with negativity
There are both positive and negative energies in abundance in this Universe, as everything in it is made up of energy. Your thoughts, emotions, words, and actions are all energy, vibrating at different frequencies. And we all know that energy cannot be destroyed, it can only be converted from one form to another.
When your vibrational frequency matches that of another person, you tend to be attracted to each other and stay together. When either of your vibrational frequencies changes, you will drift apart and part ways.
Your dreams come true when you are a vibrational match for it. As desires are always good, positive things, you need to raise your frequency. The only way to achieve this is to get rid of negativity and embrace a positive, optimistic attitude.
The one thing you can control completely is your thoughts. Your thoughts are way more powerful than you can imagine. Like everything else, your thoughts are also vibrations. Using them, you can influence anyone you want to.
So, instead of focusing on “why isn’t he/she calling me?”, use your thoughts wisely and turn your attention to thoughts such as “he/she is thinking of me now” and “he/she is thinking of texting me”. Since others just mirror your thoughts, it is possible to influence others to do what you want with your thoughts.
Do not bother about how you parted ways earlier or the disagreements you have had in the past. By focusing on these negative thoughts, you are trying to find reasons for the person not to contact you. Be mindful of your thoughts as they have the power to influence others.
4. Believe in yourself
Low self-image is directly linked to failure. By allowing fear, doubts, and desperation to take over your mind, you are sabotaging your dreams. Stop focusing on what you don’t like about your life. Stop feeling powerless and inadequate.
When you have low self-esteem, you are projecting these images about yourself onto those around you. Then you cannot blame others for treating you as incompetent, worthless, and having no respect for you. The more others treat you this way, the more you slip into depression. It is a vicious cycle.
Start believing in yourself and take control of your life. Believe in your hidden powers and ability to achieve anything you want to. Believe you are worthy of the life of your dreams and deserve a shot at happiness and success.
5. Trust the Universe
Unflinching belief or trust in the power of the Universe in realizing your dreams is essential to manifesting with the law of attraction. You need to believe that the Universe always has your back and work towards bringing you what you want. It is constantly trying to make you happy.
Going about the steps of manifestation without believing in its success is a waste of time and energy. There is no point in going ahead with the process, as you don’t stand a chance to succeed.
Trusting the Universe means having faith that your wishes and dreams will be fulfilled irrespective of past experiences and current situation. It requires placing complete faith in its mechanisms even if everything points to the contrary. It means letting go of all alternative paths other than the one that leads to success.
6. Make optimum use of manifestation tools
Affirmation: These simple positive statements are immensely powerful in boosting your morale, keeping you motivated, and helping you stay on track. It is a potent tool for converting negative thoughts into positive ones.
Using the right words with the right attitude is important in getting the best out of this highly formidable manifestation tool. Avoid anything with a negative connotation, even if the intention is correct.
This rule covers your thoughts and conversations as well. Even when you have to answer the question whether the person has gotten in touch with you, instead of replying in the negative, you can turn it around to a positive or neutral statement such as “I am expecting it soon” or “He/she/they will, it doesn’t bother me anymore”. The more positive you are, the easier it is to manifest.
Here are a few affirmations to help you manifest someone to love you and contact you.
- I am ready to receive a call from (name of the person).
- I know (name of the person) will contact me at the right time.
- I am constantly attracting (name of person)
- I am the perfect partner for (name of person)
- (name of person) respects me for who I am.
Visualization: See through the mind’s eye your desire and ensuing happiness. This is sure to lift your spirits as nothing else can.
For extra effect, you may hold your phone while doing this exercise. You need not turn the screen on or actually look at it. Just sit in a calm, undisturbed spot with your eyes closed and imagine getting a call or text from the person you desire. You may visualize the person’s name popping up on the screen or reading the message.
Using the law of attraction manifestation technique, it is possible to manifest the exact phrase or sentence you want to hear. It can be single words like ‘hi’ or ‘hey’ or full sentences like ‘I miss you’, ‘how are you’ or ‘you are hired’. All you need to do is include these in the visualization process. Do remember to include only positive messages in the visualization process. Negative messages that are apologies, pleading or arguing in nature would only end up adding more negativity and bring down your vibrational levels.
The next step is to visualize your excitement and euphoria at the fulfillment of your desire. Feel the emotion and immerse yourself in the happy vibes. If you do this right, you would even have goosebumps. Or find a tear or two trickling down your cheeks. Stay in the zone for as long as you want to.
Before you return to reality, you may send a message to the Universe. Remember to include your desire and your visualization experience in detail.
Visualization works the best when you are in a state of deep meditation – that is a drowsy, half-asleep/half-awake state. This is immediately after you wake up in the morning or just before you fall asleep at night.
A point to remember while doing this exercise is to differentiate between expectation and desperation. You are desperate when you check your phone for messages ten times a minute. When you fail to find the message you are eagerly awaiting, you are disappointed irrespective of the reason for its absence. However, expectation without the shackles of desperation is sweet, exciting, and joyous and gives you a high as nothing else can.
You will find yourself glowing with joy and positivity a long time after you finished this exercise. Contrary to your normal attitude, you will find yourself in a cheerful mood with a smile on your lips for the rest of the day. That is the amazing power of visualization!
Meditation: Meditation is highly useful to remain positive and calm and to keep doubts, fear, and desperation away. By eliminating negativity, you will start enjoying the process.
If you find meditation too hard to practice, you may try breathing exercises to stay calm. For this again, all you need is a quiet, peaceful place and free of interruptions. Sit erect in a comfortable position. Take a deep breath in and hold it to the count of five. Breathe out to the count of five. Repeat at least 10 times.
Gratitude: Feeling grateful can take you a long way in your manifestation journey. Though easy and simple to practice, it is most often forgotten and hence remains an underutilized manifestation tool.
Gratitude has the power to raise your vibrational frequency in a flash. This will come in handy when you are trying to manifest your dreams. Feeling thankful can help you become a vibrational match for your desire in no time.
7. Learn to let go
Once you finish your manifestation steps, summon the courage to ‘let go’. Don’t go about looking for signs that it is working. Checking your phone frequently for messages or missed calls is counterproductive. It will lead to frustration, desperation, and a lot of negative vibes.
When you are looking for signs, it means you do not believe in the process and trust the Universe.
Just learn to be patient and be confident about the success of your manifestation. Practice affirmations, visualization, meditation, and gratitude to boost your positive vibes and stay motivated.
8. Raise your vibrations
In addition to using the tools of the law of attraction, you may take the help of other resources to raise your vibrational frequency. Some of the useful methods are
- Regular exercises
- Listening to peppy music
- Reading feel-good books
- Watching entertaining movies
- Meeting new people
- Taking up new challenges
- Get close to nature
- Engage in some self-pampering
- Spending time with family and friends
Unaware of it, you may have had a brush with the miraculous ways of the law of attraction. You think of someone and out of the blue, you get a call or a message from the person.
Do remember that the law of attraction is working for you whether you are aware of it or not, believe in it or not. It is to your advantage that you understand how it works and use it to make your dreams come true.
Also do keep in mind the fact that the Universe is always on your side. It is working hard to make you happy by bringing you what you want. Now, it is up to you to make maximum use of this information and facts and bring to life your dreams.
With pure intention and strong belief, nothing is impossible!
Commonly asked questions
You may get an instant phone call or it may take a day, week, or a month or even more. It depends on the resistance you have built up within yourself that needs to be demolished. It also depends on the barrier you have created with the person you want to get in touch with.
One or more of these signs are hints that manifesting with the law of attraction is working fine for you.
- You feel relaxed and at peace with yourself.
- You see what you want everywhere you go.
- You often come across signs from the Universe.
- You will encounter many coincidences.
As there is no fixed time duration for the manifestation to make your dreams come true, it is not easy to decide whether you should keep at it or consider it as not working and start over after correcting your previous mistakes. However, certain indications can tell you whether your manifestation is moving in the right direction or not.
- You feel uneasy and confused all the time.
- You find yourself totally lost, unable to move ahead with the process.
- You don’t recognize any of the signs that the Universe is sending your way.
- You do not come across a single positive signal.
Before you think about abandoning the manifestation journey altogether, reassess it whether it can be salvaged by making small changes in your approach. If you feel drastic changes are needed, it is better to start all over again after resetting your attitude in the right direction.